In Denial

DH has really been in denial about being disabled. He really just can't get it through his head that he probably won't ever be able to hold a job and his past surely shows it. Even though he's on medication now it's still an everyday battle and no two days are alike.

I've tried to convince him to at least try to apply for social security disability insurance but he hasn't chosen to go that route yet. I applaud him for wanting something better and not setting limits for himself but it's really to the point where he doesn't have much of a choice. He needs to be even semi independent and having the checks would really help us both out. I think the description of the application process given to him is what really scared him. There's a high chance of denial and I'm sure that neither one of us really wants to deal with more paperwork. I may have to consider hiring a company to help us with the process to reduce the risk of having to go through appeals and such. I know there is at least one that doesn't charge unless they actually get you approved but even then I'm not sure we could afford the fees. At least the option is there and it's something to look into, it's nice to know the options.